i don't wanna have a radically individual and unique gender tho
like ok cool my gender doesn't have to look like anyone else's
but i want it to, because otherwise im really really alone
@velexiraptor the gender feels you've been expressing are really similar to what i feel.
@xavin yeah! ive found a bunch of ppl with genders like mine but it never feels like we end up getting rly acknowledged except by each other
@velexiraptor we definitely fall into a gendered experience that The Mainstream would like to pretend doesn't exist.
@xavin i joke about it being a secret gender but i might write a paper on it someday
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